My twins graduated high school. So what now? Everyone is asking, so what are they doing now?  We are often so focussed on “doing” that we miss the important benefits of “being” for awhile. We are a culture that prides itself on keeping busy.  There is a great benefit in slowing down and being especially after a significant loss or change in your life.  Watch this video for more on the need to “be” after a loss.